If you want to have sex, then do it. If you want to be celibate, then do that. The key is that whatever you decide to do, then learn how to transform and cultivate your own energy. Love and sex-energy is the most important energy in our cells, Without these two energies, the cells will not split and divide properly. Every day we need love, and every day we need sex.
5 Taoist Sex Practices for Your Manliness
Two spiritual gurus explain why you've probably never had a real orgasm
Taoism is a spiritual tradition that embraces our sexual desire and uses it within our bodies as a force for healing and spiritual growth. Desire is a rich and potent part of our human experience. The Taoists think of desire, called sexual energy or jing chi, as part of our life energy, or chi. To be passionate is to be full of chi. The English words "desire" or "passion" connotes a feeling of yearning and fervor that includes sex, but they also reflect our strongest feelings about life. When we are passionate about anything—our family, our work, our spirituality, an important social cause—we are investing our chi in this experience.
Two spiritual gurus explain why you’ve probably never had a real orgasm
Taoists regard the orgasm as the combined essences of all the body's vital organs. Each organ and gland participates in the orgasmic process as follows: 1. The five senses create an environment for an orgasm as we become aroused through particular sights, sounds, feelings, scents, and tastes.
Sexual organs and the kidneys store part of the Jing, the essence of the primordial force. Learn how to conserve and store it. More sexual energy will help to attract and multiply the primordial chi. Men learn how to control ejaculation and to transform the sexual energy into Chi life force and then transform it up to spirit force. Women learn how to control menstruation and transform the blood into chi and likewise transform it up to spirit force.