My first time witnessing a man have something crammed into his dick hole involved an extreme fetish video called Two Kids, One Sandbox. The video, which is no longer than a few seconds, shows a woman viciously stuffing a dildo or vibrator? Many years later, the thought of this video and the thought of shoving something into my own dick hole continues to make me squirm in horror. In an attempt to understand this extreme fetish and the community of people who engage in urethral play also extremely NSFW! Clinical sexologist and certified sex coach Sunny Rodgers agrees that starting slow and using equipment specifically designed for urethral play are of the utmost importance. As Burns mentioned, there are two main types of toys used for urethral play: Urethral sounds and urethral plugs.